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„Apply the lessons learned.“

Lalah Delia

Sometimes we’re just stuck. Nothing changes and even worse, we’re making the same mistakes over and over and over again. I‘ve read somewhere that in order to learn from your mistakes you have to take responsibility and that you must be willing to question your own role. For example, why is it that I always react in a certain way to questions, situations or accuses even though I know that I’ll feel small or exploited or angry after? Why can’t I decide to react differently? Maybe because I fear the consequences, maybe because it’s easier to „play“ that role, and acting differently is a big step out of our comfort zone that we all love and defend so much?
Either way, we have to deal with it, because even learning lessons is a choice.